Something feels wrong. Let's understand what.
Get clear on what's actually happening before you make a decision you can't take back. We won't tell you whether to stay — that's not a call an app gets to make.
About 4 minutes. No account needed to start.
- About 4 minutes
- No account needed to start
- Private by default
Overall RQ
74
An illustrative profile. Yours is built from your own answers in about four minutes.
If any of this is familiar
- Nothing is obviously wrong and you're still not happy
- You've been asking friends whether this is normal
- You can't tell if you've grown apart or just grown tired
- You wonder whether the problem is them, or you, or neither
- You've imagined leaving, then felt guilty for imagining it
- You want to be sure before you do anything about it
None of that means anything is wrong with you. It means there’s a pattern, and patterns can be described.
What you get, free
Four minutes of honest questions, then something you can use.
What changed, and when
Separating what's different from what you're afraid is different.
Rough patch or pattern
Both feel identical from inside. They need completely different responses.
Your next step, not your verdict
Something concrete to do this week — not a ruling on your relationship.
About 4 minutes · No account needed to start
Before you tell us anything difficult
Private by default
Your answers are encrypted, never sold, and never sent to advertising platforms. Analytics see which step you were on, never what you said.
No streaks, no guilt
Missing a day isn't a moral failure. There's no flame to lose and nothing to apologise to your phone for.
We won't tell you to leave
Or to stay. An app is not equipped to make that call, and any product that pretends otherwise is selling certainty it doesn't have.
Abuse isn't a communication problem
If your answers suggest you may not be safe, we stop the assessment and point you toward people trained for it. We don't optimise around it.
Questions people ask first
It's a RelationQ framework, not a validated clinical instrument, and it isn't an IQ equivalent. It's a structured, consistent way of turning how you describe your own relating into something you can see and track. That's useful — but we won't dress it up as something it isn't.
No. RelationQ works entirely from your side, because the part of a relationship you can actually change is your own. Partner features are on the roadmap, not a requirement.
No. RelationQ is an educational and self-reflection tool. It isn't medical, psychological, legal or emergency care, and it doesn't diagnose anything. It sits well alongside therapy and doesn't replace it.
The assessment and your initial profile are free. Premium unlocks your full RQ profile, the complete plan, exercises and progress tracking, on a 3, 6 or 12-month subscription — with the price per month, the total charged and the renewal date shown before you pay.
It's stored against an anonymous session so you can close the tab and come back. It's never sold, never used for advertising, and you can ask us to delete all of it.
Yes — arguably more so. The time between relationships is the only period you can examine your patterns without simultaneously managing someone else's reaction to them.
Something feels wrong. Let's understand what.
Understand my relationship